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Learn the Tantric secrets of sacred sex. Discover an art of loving that will forever transform your lovemaking into a truly intimate, fulfilling, spiritual experience. Based on the ancient Tantric belief that the hidden potency of sexual loving is the seed of all creativity and transcendence, this remarkable program teaches you how to awaken your own natural sexual energy and experience a deeper level of intimacy and connectedness with your love partner. Beautifully filmed with visual but sensitive explicitness, you'll see six engaging real-life couples who share and demonstrate Tantric methods adapted for Western lovers in sacred sex lovemaking. You'll explore over twenty techniques to enhance pleasure and deepen intimacy including: sexual breathing and movement, guided imagery, erotic touch, sexual dialogue, self-pleasuring, expanding orgasm and positions for ecstatic lovemaking.

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The Tantric Secrets of Sacred Sex Reviews

Spiritual not sexy.
 
Reviewer: margy May, USA
This DVD is more for couples that want to get closer on a more spiritual level rather than a demonstration of new spicy sex positions! It is sensual and slow and would be perfect for individuals who have intimacy issues and want to learn to take things slowly without the pressure of performance.
The couples are candid and share their thoughts on sex and holding back orgasms to extend their love-making using Tantric techniques.I did not find the DVD sexy but more spiritual.
Nice video about tantric sex
 
Reviewer: deepest, USA
It is much more about tantric sex than other ones, that usually just take the name tantric, say couple sentences about it and then go onto the positions. It is a good introduction to tantric sex. It is filmed inside and outside in the nature.
The only complaint I have is that the music and narators voice is so boring, that can put you to sleep, if you don't focus strongly.
Very informative and helpful
 
Reviewer: Michelle Samuel, Ann Arbor MI
Very down to earth and practical approach to sex life, whether you are into Tantra, or just look for ways to improve your sex life. They really know about sex - some ideas could and should be used by sex therapists. Beautiful, done with artistic talent. As a sex therapist myself, I use it a lot with my clients.
Good instructional DVD
 
Reviewer: Natasha Campbell, Philadelphia, PA
I thought this dvd was easy to follow and interesting. It was not about sex but more so love and sex. You would not want to do the things they tell you about with a casual partner, someone you just met, or someone you are not that into. It was quite lengthy and some of the material presented may make you feel silly but overall it was good and I would recommend to those with an open mind. I laughed a few times and said to myself "my husband would not go for that". It's worth a try.
Very Nicely Done
 
Reviewer: Richard Meadows,
Now THIS is a terrific production... very attractyive couples, great Tantric techniques and demonstrations... This is what a Tantric vid should be. Excellent in all aspects. Buy with confidence and enjoy for a lifetime.
Fabulous!!
 
Reviewer: Michael Love, Rathdrum, Idaho United States
The Tantric Secrets of Sacred Sex DVD is a must buy for those couples who want to take their love making to new and exciting levels into the Sacred as they have never experienced before!!!
Loved it!
 
Reviewer: Lauren Thornhill, MARTINSVILLE, VA, US
This movie is very educational and fun. Your idea of fun may be different than mine, but it you are interested in taking your relationship to a new height you should learn tantric sex. It not only heightens your senses and creates a better sexual experience, it also takes your quality of life to a different height. It is something I think everyone should try.
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DVD / CD COMBO SET

Written by Vatsyana in approx. 350 AD, the Kama Sutra (Priciple’s of Love), connects all aspects of sexual life. These ancient and timeless teachings of the East are revealed in Sinclair's unique approach. Expert advice from noted Indian Sexologist and Kama Sutra authority, Prof. Prakash Kothari, MD, PhD, leads the exploration of this ancient wisdom. Sharing a highly developed expression of their erotic desires, real couples demonstrate positions outlined in the text and live the principles, "what’s good for the body is good for sex". Included with this new DVD set is a CD (35 minutes) of the original music score from the video.

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  • Kama Sutra (Principles or Love), connects all aspects of sexual life
  • Expert advice from noted Kama Sutra authority, Professor Prakash Kothari, MD Ph.D.
  • Real couples demonstrates positions outlined in the text
  • 60 minutes DVD; 35 minutes CD
  • Spanish language option

Better Sex Video: The Better Sex Guide to the Kama Sutra DVD Reviews

never been better
 
Reviewer: fineco, MILWAUKEE, WI United States
Actually, I have no ideas if I see this DVD as an excellent piece because I am a male. As what mentioned by previous reviewers, this DVD can somehow be perceived as a semi-porn movie partially because of the involvement of actual intercourse.

Besides the demonstration of several positions, the couples performing various positions are open-mind to things such as sexual toys and even "swing (you will see from the DVD)". However, the demonstration in this DVD is definitely more convincing than what porn movies can do. My girlfriend and I also keep a Kama Sutra gamebox, and I find that some positions in this DVD have been tried for a couple of times by us. By watching this DVD, I know how to make it better by only adjusting a little bit, for example, where to place the leg.

A porn movie overwhelmingly focuses on the sex from the aspect of superficial side, but this DVD emphasizes on education and aspiration (meanwhile, it keeps you from feeling sleepy).
They not only talk the talk but walk the walk.

For couples who are interested in reference under this category, I also recommend Seductive Sex Positions.
This DVD is Excellent!
 
Reviewer: Shoshannah, Phila, PA
I love this DVD!! It is current, beautiful, has great music that comes with it as a bonus and really gives you Kama Sutra information not just positions like so many other videos. If someone is looking for real Kama Sutra information from noted experts this is the one! It's also a nice weekend surprise to try something new with your partner- we both really enjoyed it.
Tastefully done sex education DVD
 
Reviewer: R., CA
Comments: An introduction to the Kama Sutra positions. The positions, though they appear to be easy, take practice, skill, mindfulness and flexibility. The positions shown are not just the missionary position. The DVD presents challenging and fun exercises for loving, mature partners at any level.

Pros: High production value. Attractive actors. Amusing behind the scenes bonus feature on DVDs. Excellent score inspired by traditional Indian music. Educational and accessible for all, including novices.
Cons: None. Minor - female host was somewhat pretentious. The actors were generally attractive and diverse. However, one actress appeared anorexic. Overall a highly recommended video.
SHAMEFUL.
 
Reviewer: Richard Meadows,
I don't get this production company... They consistently make terrible sex ed videos... and people keep wasting their cash... making them *phenomenally* rich. Truly a sad thing since they could've done a hell of alot better if not for what is percieveably appalling greed.

For this joke of a product, the Cover Art is BEAUTIFUL, BUT THAT'S IT--- You can put lipstick on a Pig all you want, but it's still a PIG. Cramming a dozen or so VERY-VERY short sex clips into a 51 minute video does NOT a KAMA SUTRA Guide make... And by throwing in a "Free Music CD" which sounds exactly like being hopelessly trapped in a sweltering elevator on vacaton in SRI LANKA INDIA with such bad "twangy" music(?), just to be able to call it a "set". Shameful.

You are *FAR* better served to easily find *other*, VERY thorough productions within AMazon... detailing this remarkable subject... and if you waste your hard earned money on this product, then the saying about fools and their money being quickly parted will live on... exactly what is seemingly hoped and expected by this company to keep getting richer from GOOD PEOPLE- There's at least *3* TERRIFIC Kama Sutra Sets to be found here on Amazon... RUN away from here AS FAST AS YOU CAN ~and go where your interests are HONESTLY Best Served.
AN UTTER WASTE OF HARD EARNED MONEY.....
 
Reviewer: Jamie Dimon, Gold Coast Historic District
It's hard to imagine people have the nerve to perpetrate that the Teachings of the Kama Sutra can be boiled down into roughly 50 minutes. It seems as to be a true testament of greedy marketing to use the Name and Beauty of the Kama Sutra, which is BARELY represented within this "video"- moreso seemingly the intent being seeking to make money from unsuspecting persons who wish to learn this Truly Beautiful Art.

The "Music CD" is nothing more than nervewracking twang-twang sounds that you will probably not be able to bear for more than a minute. I don't think they even advertise it as it is so bad... Calling it a Guide to the Kama Sutra instead of the DVD & Music Set it is, or more appropriately ISN'T.

There's FAR better teachings of the KAMA SUTRA on this site... PLEASE do yourself a favor, and save your hard earned money and certain headache with this sad production of sheer GREED.
Very clear, but kind of dry
 
Reviewer: deepest, USA
It is educational, but kind of dry. The cover is so beautiful, so I expected it to be more beautiful. The couples are very nice.
A Tastefully Erotic and Concise DVD for Lovers
 
Reviewer: D. A. Martin,
The Sinclair Intimacy Institute puts out fantastic DVD's on sex and lovemaking. This DVD is no exception. For anyone who has ever been intrigued or curious about the Kama Sutra, this should be the next DVD you purchase. An added bonus is the CD soundtrack included for your listening pleasure.

Have an open mind, a pure heart, and enjoy!
Great information
 
Reviewer: Richard B. Spurgeon, Roseburg,OR
Great information for newlyweds and oldsters. It is to bad Americans have such a "thing " about sex.
Hmm... Good Look...
 
Reviewer: Douglas L. Crenshaw Sr., Hartford, CT USA
I bought this DVD to improve my loving... The video show a lot of things I already do and confirm I was doing the right thang (lol)... I learn some stuff too... My wife will be impressed and happy too... Good look!!!
This is alright
 
Reviewer: Imparo, Chicago IL
This is not bad there are some positions that are new but on the whole the positions are all already known. The positions that are new i really too difficult for any one to get. what the video could have achieved was some amount of foreplay that the kama sutra talks about not just the positions.
nothing new but it works
 
Reviewer: Edwin T. Askew, USA
well what can I say , not much new, but it works, my wife liked it .
good and professinonal
 
Reviewer: W. Mi, HK
The production is good and professional. It won't let you feel that you are watching A film. It helps to learn more about sex.
Big Yawn!
 
Reviewer: W. Andrews, Frisco, CA
I gave this DVD 2 stars because it was well done, very classy and had real couples. And second cause it aroused my wife, she likes soft porn. BUT, it showed me NOTHING new. I'm only 26 years old, wife same age, and I've been doing those positions since I was like 20 yrs old. I guess if you're just used to the old missionary position and don't really have a sexual imagination, then this is the video for you!

But if you have an imagination and try different positions, then don't purchase this, save your money. I'm going to exchange this in search of a video that shows me a few things that I don't know. I'll admit that I don't know everything, who does?
The Better Sex Guide to the Kama Sutra DVD
 
Reviewer: Danis, Taiwan
so-so
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Introducing the All New Better Sex Video Series®: Sexplorations Unlike anything on the market today, the all new Better Sex Video Series raises the bar with amazing cinematography, lighting and originally scored music. This production has no rivals in terms of technical quality, expert advice and up to date information. Real couples and leading sex experts take viewers on an erotic, three-volume journey to enhanced intimacy. The renowned Better Sex Series continues to shown millions of viewers the path to greater sexual fulfillment. Free "Journeys" sensual music CD included with purchase of 3 volume DVD set! Volume 1 Advanced Sexual Techniques & Positions To increase sexual knowledge while heightening pleasure & intimacy. Twelve real life couples explore sexual positions and techniques. Highlights include: detailed demonstrations of Kama Sutra sexual positions, presentations and explanations of sexual anatomy (including the elusive G-spot), erotic massage and four fundamentals of foreplay - oral sex, erotic talk, sensual touch and kissing. Volume 2 22 Sex Secrets, Tips & Turn Ons Exciting secrets to turn a couple's sex life into something extraordinary. This volume features loving couples demonstrating techniques sure to add passion and inspire creativity. Highlights include: the art of seduction, erotic dance, living out sexual fantasies including the seldom talked about and often misunderstood sexual power play. Volume 3 Erotic Sex Play & Beyond Enhancing sex can be as easy as concentrating on sensual touch. The final volume of the new Better Sex Video Series® celebrates some of the many ways a more rewarding and fulfilling sex life can be achieved. High lights include: role-playing, having quickies in unusual places, the pleasures of anal sex and using erotic toys & films to stimulate the mind and body. The Better Sex Video Series:Sexplorations 3 Volume Set DVD/music CD Journeys Pack Set

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  • Real couples and leading sex experts take viewers on an erotic, three-volume journey
  • Volume 1 - Advanced Sexual Techniques & Positions
  • Volume 2 - 22 Sex Secrets, Tips & Turn-ons
  • Volume 3 - Erotic Sex Play & Beyond
  • Music CD - Journeys

Better Sex Video Series: Sexplorations - Volumes 1, 2, 3 DVDs + FREE Music CD "Journeys" DVD/music CD Set Reviews

The Perfect Series for Couples Longing for More... Ya Know
 
Reviewer: D. A. Martin,
This is a terrific series by the Sinclair Institute that does what it says: Helps couples to take their passion and lovemaking to a whole new level. Everything is done in a very erotic, yet tasteful way. The 12 participating couples really convey the love they have for each other by demonstrating the various lovemaking techniques, and the hostess's narration couldn't be better.

For couples who want to spice up their love life, this video series is a must-have.
Quality!
 
Reviewer: Darb, Pittsburgh, PA
This is a quality product. From the actors/actresses, film quality and content this was one of the best sex videos my wife and I have seen. We have been together 14 years and had not watched one of these type videos in about 5 or 6 years because we had just got fed up with the poor quality of what we were seeing. Because of the reviews we gave this one a shot and were pleasantly surprised. If you want to get away or stay away from the hardcore porn scene but yet still desire erotic films with content and couples. This is the one for you. It is the type film that will get you and your mate talking and creating.
Great dvd for anyone wanting to spice it up!
 
Reviewer: ilovemosaics, Parker, Colorado United States
I thought this dvd was well done. It had actual couples in it instead of actors, which made it more real. I liked that they interviewed couples about their feeling regarding some of the techniques used as not everyone likes everything.
Real sex, not pornography
 
Reviewer: Janelle Manno, Chicago, IL
Me and my partner have really enjoyed these videos, especially the outspoken couples that dared to "show it all" in the demonstrations. The camera work is graphic enough without detaching the people from the act, and done with taste without being prude.
The only detail I didn't like were the interviews that didn't show real couples, but clearly were actors performing transcriptions of interviews, badly. But the interviews with the real couples that performed for these videos are worth it.
All in all, very educational, especially for people out there that have never seen any sexually explicit material, this is the best way to view it.
Everybody thought it was good, I say it was crap
 
Reviewer: M. Jorgensen, Orem, Utah
Ok, this was supposed to be informational and a great way to spice up love. I and my wife took a total of 15 min, after which I then played the dvd 4x speed. The only thing erotic about it is that the woman wears something silky. Other than that it's a regular massage, but a crappy one at that. The "Sensual" word in the title is misleading, because once again, there is nothing sensual, or even unusual about the massage itself.

Next, the massage is crap. The narrator tells you to do one thing, the model couple is doing something else. He tells you to work the lower back, the couple is working the upper back. He wants you to knead the muscles, the couple is doing long strokes and some fanning. My wife doesn't even know how to massage and she could tell you that the couple wasn't following the instructor whatsoever. On top of that, the man getting the massage wouldn't have even have enjoyed it. The model woman was basically tickling the man's back, not applying any pressure, and again, NEVER following the narrators instruction.

The entire DVD had low budget written all over it (I'm talking a college kid's independent film), the techniques were never showing, the movie wasn't sensual, and it's a huge waste. My guess is that every single reviewer out there that had something good to say is either a friend or relative of the producer/seller, or else they're ignorant of what massage techniques actually are (so they just followed the model couple and figured they were doing something right).
Good info
 
Reviewer: Sunshine, MO United States
Very good info. Very well done. Great tips, advise, suggestions, positions. The actors are real couples so don't expect real beautiful people. Overall, I believe you will definitely learn something from this series.
TERRIBLE, TERRIBLE, TERRIBLE
 
Reviewer: Richard Meadows,
My Wife and I were eager to learn from this product. We had friends warn us however, that they had received this product in it's case which was mis-shapen - apparently from the use of a HEAT GUN to shrink the wrapper... which defies any sensibility, damage the case to seal it? Most would agree that is beyond counter-intuitive, though it was entirely TRUE... *and* with apparent unexplainable "stretch marks" you would just have to see to believe it even possible, the discs being inordinately wide & deeply scratched, and all having a pronounced foul odor like scorched plastic. I had hoped that it was a freak anomaly when deciding to give it a shot anyway, however the very same issues so many people found wrong with it were indeed entirely consistent. We had elected to purchase from a thrid party seller on this site, who was "giving away" a "FREE DVD" supposedly worth $9.99 as an incentive. Understandable gimmick, especially if they knew they were sending poorly produced & damaged goods to begin with... and still yet not even close to worth it (especially given any DVD only costs roughly sixty cents to manufacture, and naturally we received the poorest ranked DVD sinclair offers/and quite possibly barely sells at all, part of which had a lengthy clip of a 70 year old woman- spasmotically enjoying her vibrator, a sight which I wish I had NEVER seen).

We returned everything... (and was still given a difficult time in regard to having the shipping cost refunded, which was finally recompensed to us as well, after much heated debate from the very rude seller who then still waited over a week to initiate it) THEN, we purchased it from a "Reliable" source, and astonishingly, received the very same- heatgun warped, VERY severely scratched from the way it seems the discs are pressured into the cases during assembly, and the searingly foul smell (Yes... DVD's that SMELL... *unreal*) was all simply far too much... Therefore, due to all the extremely poor manufacturing issues that were prevelant, and the fact I had hoped the content would be of value justifying the expenses, I was very mistaken in every conceiveable way. I wish I could say otherwise, however this is simply one of, if not the poorest production I have ever had the misfortune to encounter, **characterized by the worst of all "creative" and manufacturing traits that could possibly exist.**
The Best Sex Education Video Ever
 
Reviewer: Doris Ekpere, Cingoli, ltaly
Having scanned the wed for months for Sex educational Video, finding this video actually satisfied my needs. This is not your conventional sex/porn video. This is real couples making love, demostrating love making skills with passion, sensuality and true desire. The hours I spend watching this Better sex vidoe was worth it. Not, only did this video document the actual lives or real couples making love, it's also filled with accurate knowleged and tips given by recognized expects in the feild of love making. It also threw lights on so many misconcetpions about love making, the human body and so on.

I do recommend this video to couples that have lost the spark in their relationship or that think there's something missing in their relationship. This video is not only enjoyable to watch but it's erotically and sensually presented in the way that you will be drooling and itching to spice up your sex life or even throw some of your inhibitions out the window by the time you've finished watching it.

I threw my inhibitions away and even came to understand more about myself in term of female ograsm and so on. Well, am still simmering from how hot the video made me feel and I do intend ordering more of the Better Sex Video Series. After all, am watching real couples passionately making love and learning so many things in the process.
ABSOLUTELY HORRIBLE!!!!!
 
Reviewer: Jamie Dimon, Gold Coast Historic District
This "series", in my opinion, is invariably a TOTAL waste of your Hard Earned Money in EVERY respect that I only hope you do not have to endure yourselves...

Every aspect of this ABOMINATION is severely disappointing.

When I received this "series" I immediately noticed the outer case was severely *warped*, and the "protective" shrink wrapper ACTUALLY had BURN holes. It had apparently been damaged by a Heat Gun!

When we opened the item itself, one of the discs immediately fell right out of the case!

Furthermore, the inside of the case had a VERY FOUL SMELL like Burned/Scorched Plastic! We had to place the case outside as the smell was so rancid as it quickly filled the room. The discs had the same acrid smell, however not as pronounced.

We then decided to check the Discs for damage, and to no surprise, they were ALL gouged/scratched- apparently for the manufacturer's lack of ability to affix them on the center holders to keep them snapped in properly. They had been DEEPLY GOUGED by being scraped against the center holders and 2 of the 3 could not be viewed.

We have seen Many Sinclair Intimacy Institute DVDs, and in ALL truth, they are by far the WORST Intimacy Productions we could EVER have had the misfortune of traumatizing our minds with.

It still gets WORSE.

2 of the 3 Video Discs either Skipped or Would not play. and the "Journeys" mood music was horrendous. It put my wife and I in the mood to do anything except enjoy an intimate encounter.

The Disc that actually worked, Disc 2: Secrets Tips And Turn ons, was utterly laughable. If these are supposed to be "real life couples" then 35-40 year old looking women must be marrying 18 year olds for these videos. Looked like a prostitute, or a porn actress, in our opinion anyway, and the young man appeared to be heavily intoxitated.

We were also extremely turned off by the same man-boy in a lenghty clip where he masturbates and simultaneously plunges his fingers into his rectum.

If you want a video that is designed to enhance intimacy, we STRONGLY discourage wasting your very valuable money on this utter disaster in every respect.
Very educational
 
Reviewer: H. Bravo, Mex. City
This is it Guys, need any tips? here they are, very recomendable, you can watch it with your wife, comment and put to pratice ENJOY!!!
Tastefully done, very helpful
 
Reviewer: kjsd, Gig Harbor, WA
My husband and I were very nervous about ordering a "sex help" video, but we did and the results have been FANTASTIC! The video is done tastefully and there are tons of great tips! We highly recommend this product.
Sue Johanson's recomendation
 
Reviewer: Rodolfo O. Zimmer, Rio de Janeiro, Brasil
It doesn't matter how young or how old you are. This DVD will reveal something new and fresh for your sexual life.
great info and easy instruction
 
Reviewer: that one girl, here
this set was great! it had a lot of useful info and some instruction was so easy to follow and use later.
Just great!
 
Reviewer: Baba Yaga, UK
This is very well done product - and a very good idea - it's just like discussing all the most delicate issues with your best and friends who do not hesitate to share their experiences. Recommend to everyone!
sex
 
Reviewer: John Kopczinsky,
i love sex and sex movies, this is a sex movie that helps us have sex
Good Deal
 
Reviewer: Cat Krystal,
I found this item to be in excellent condition and learned some good things. Much appreciated.
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A love letter to movies (and the French new wave of the 1960s in particular), Bernardo Bertolucci's The Dreamers starts with a 1968 riot outside of a Parisian movie palace then burrows into an insular love triangle. Matthew (Michael Pitt, Hedwig and the Angry Inch), an expatriate American student, bonds with a twin brother and sister, Isabelle (Eva Green) and Theo (Louis Garrel), over their mutual love of film--they not only quote lines of dialogue, they act out small bits and challenge each other to name the cinematic source. Matthew suspects the twins of incest, but that doesn't stop him from falling into his own intimacies with Isabelle. As the threesome becomes threatened, Paris succumbs to student riots. The Dreamers aspires to be kinky, but the results are more decorative than decadent; nonetheless, the movie's lively energy recalls the careless and vital exuberance of Godard and Truffaut. --Bret Fetzer

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The Dreamers (Original Uncut NC-17 Version) Reviews

More than a masterpiece...
 
Reviewer: Shane M. Warnick, San Francisco, CA USA
...this film is (for the lack of a better word) a dream--a dream you would not willingly want to wake up from. Completely and utterly mesmerizing, "The Dreamers" pays homage to film, Paris, the 60's, and love. Apart from some of the awkward moments this movie tends to present sporadically, the movie itself was not mired by the abnormalities of some of the main characters. Though, this movie is one of the greatest I've ever viewed, it is not for everyone and cannot be readily recommended without reviewing some of the pros and cons I caught.

CONS:
-First off, if you're offended, in any way, by frontal nudity from either sex... caution: it contains a lot!
-For some, if the ending is a chief factor in deciding that you like a movie, it is possible you could be dissapointed (it ends in an unlikely manner). But if you can appreciate the ending, it doesn't hurt the film at all... Maybe people were disappointed by the ending because they didn't want it to end :)
-If not accustomed to slower-moving movies, based on a load of story depth or the like opposed to action or thiller movies, then it could be a let down.

But the cons are heavily outweighed by the pros...

PROS:
-For film buffs, Bertolucci doesn't dissapoint. The b/w segments intermingled within the storyline are anything short of genius and, for me, was the most beautiful and spellbinding part of this movie.
-For anti-censorship viewers, this movie could seem to be sent from heaven, because it doesn't leave much out.
-The acting is on a par with almost perfection, all three main characters are played flawlessly and completely take on the people they are supposed to evoke... Eva Green is especially amazing.
-The soundtrack is excellent as well. The tone that the music sets is completely appropriate and only adds to the dreamy atomsphere of the film; totally reminiscent of the 60's.
-A perfect representation of Paris in the 60's; eventhough the film's centerpoint is the main characters and their relationship with one another, the artist's home of Europe couldn't be portrayed to be more gorgeous (with the exception of the student riots in foreground).

It is difficult to stop thinking of this movie, even between viewing other movies... if I could i'd give it six stars.
To be of the world or just an extra
 
Reviewer: Reine des Coeurs, New York, NY USA
Bertolucci's revolutionary film takes place in the tumultous summer of 1968 in which a young American, Matthew (Michael Pitt) has come to Paris to study French. He becames a cinephile and a frequent patron of the Cinemateque Francais, the breeding ground for the New Wave movement. Shortly after the firing of Langlois, he meets fellow cinephiles Isabelle (Eva Green) and Theo (Louis Cassel) and scores an invitation to dinner.

That's how it begins, but this movie isn't linear and it cannot be deciphered merely by the order of events. Quite frankly, I was amazed by Fox Searchlight releasing what may be one of the most revolutionary and sexually progressive films of recent years. In the streets, the young and old found their revolutionary voices in 1968 and fought to institute governmental changes, but inside this chic apartment another revolution is taking place as well only this one involves fewer persons.

Matthew is clearly enamored of Isabelle and Theo (though this latter relationship isn't as developed as in "The Holy Innocents", which I found took away from the storyline) but he is not transfixed by them. He realizes that though they observe the world, they purposely keep themselves outside of it. Theo's father correctly observes early in the movie that to understand the world and change it, you have to become part of it. This is a lesson Matthew is constantly aware of and tries to pass on to his new friends. The first inkling of how grounded he is in this reality comes with the Zippo scene (my favorite) in which his casual observation of how a simple lighter fits into every possible place. Life allows us to fit into many possible spaces as we constantly change and constantly search for the ideal spot, but the cosmic lesson in it is that we will fit into them and consequently, will fit ideally into the one we pick out. We must allow ourselves to inhabit the spaces and become part of them in order to test the waters all the while and we do this by leaving the comfort of our original spot and become part of the overall world.

The sexual relationship between Isabelle and Matthew was passionate, realistic and completely believable. We live in very hypocritical times where nudity has become more taboo than violence and it was a pleasure to see young people making love with all of the intimate gestures that take place between lovers. It obviously takes a great director to pique our cinematic memories and remind us that it takes two nude bodies to make love. The nude scenes between the brother and sister were a bit troublesome to the audience I saw this movie with, but the incestual nature of their relationship in the book has been erased. To me, they just seemed dangerously, asphixiatingly bound to each other, the nudity being just part of said obsession.

All three actors do a fine job, but it takes a brave director to end a film with a police action about to take place to the sounds of Edith Piaf's "Je Ne Regrette Rien". Bertolucci understands his young protagonists and knows the many errors they will continue to commit before they pick and choose what is right and what is wrong because he has been there himself. And he regrets nothing. We should all be so lucky.

An out of place, out of time tribute to youth in the 1960s
 
Reviewer: Matthew Horner, USA
I don't know quite what to make of "The Dreamers". How did a movie with the sensibilities of 1968 suddenly show up in 2004? Though beautiful to look at, it seems oddly out of place. What is a movie in this era of `either you are with us or against us' doing here? How dare a movie suggest that, after all is said and done, life isn't a matter of right or wrong, but of shades of grays? And what is this vision of youth, not as a dumbed down, almost quaint part of humanity, but as a vibrant, intelligent force which, by its very essence, begets change? Haven't we gotten past such nonsense?

Matthew [Michael Pitt] is an American exchange student spending a year in Paris to study film. He meets French twins, Isabelle [Eva Green] and Theo [Louis Garrel]. They quickly bond, and, when the siblings' parents leave Paris for a month, Matthew moves into their vast old apartment. Their bonding immediately takes a sexual and virtually incestuous turn. The adventure-seeking but ultimately puritanical Matthew is fascinated by the sensuous and all too worldly twins.

While most of the story takes place inside the apartment, it is set against the French student uprising of 1968. Purportedly, this all began when the founder of the French film institute was fired. It quickly spread and nearly toppled the government. Young people today know little about this event, but, at the time, it was front page news. It was an era of disillusionment both in American and in Europe. The culprits were the Vietnam War and the debate over the value of Communism. People over 30 may have been content to twiddle their thumbs over the problems, but youth certainly was not.

Brilliantly directed by Bernardo Bertolucci, the movie is also an ode to the beauty and power of film. The three young protagonists see everything that is happening around them in cinematic terms. Initially, this insulates them, but as the film progresses, it is their undoing. After all, as powerful as it is, art can only imitate life. It can not BE life.

For thinking [God forbid I say `intellectual'] adult viewers, "The Dreamers" may be a profoundly moving experience. For all others, I can highly recommend the sex scenes - not that thinking people may not enjoy them, too.

An underestimated film, perfectly captures a created dream world
 
Reviewer: C. B Collins Jr., Atlanta, GA United States
This film is very good, I was surprized at how much I liked it considering all the media reviews around its release which emphasized incest and nudity and sexual taboos. In fact, the film is really about the social construction of reality and the testing of your constructed reality model. Let me explain what I mean by this; a pair of beautiful twins, a brother and sister, have developed a passion for film and have developed a highly dependent relationship upon each other that focuses their erotic energies toward each other in their insular world rather than outward. They have constructed an odd reality system, but for them it seems to have worked. They interprete the world through film. The first weakening of this reality system begins when the twins, Isabelle and Theo, invite Matthew into their world. Their parents leave for a month long summer vacation and Matthew moves into their lush apartment.

There is a very telling and important scene where Matthew comes to dinner with the family and the father and Theo have an argument at the table. Theo is angry and full of adolescent rage at his father, but his father is saddened to see Theo full of anger and so empty of real experience. Theo's view of reality is distorted and his sad father realizes that he can't help his son, that only pain and experience will open his eyes. Theo and Isabella have no idea how pampered they really are. Matthew sees it immediately but is gradually seduced by the beautiful and sophisticated twins.

Matthew is the first crack in the wall of their world. He moves into the apartment and they play games around famous films. Isabelle seduces Matthew, who is her first love, while Theo watches and so begins a marathon of love making all over the house from which Theo gradually withdraws. Theo then makes love to a girl in his college class, which is just the trick to stir Isabelle's insecurity, jealousy, and dependency needs. She quickly pulls Theo back into the threesome orbit.

These three young people are consumers, they are not producers, they run out of food and money and eventually drink a lot of the father's wine collection. Matthew, through his genuine love for Isabelle, trys to insert an external reality into their world, but both Theo and Isabelle resist. Around them the city of Paris is in riot yet the twins are oblivious. In a great scene, Isabelle and Theo wish to shave Matthew's pubic hair and he rebels and refuses confronting them with a desire to infantilize him, to make him their little boy - the childhood Theo loved by Isabelle, rather than accept that he loves Isabelle alone and wants out of the triangle.

The parents return because the phone line is dead and when the nude threesome are discovered, in a bedspread tent Isabelle recreates from her childhood, Isabelle decides to kill herself and the others using gas from the oven. This young woman will go to extremes to avoid letting the world enter her reality. To some degree she is the ultimate control freak in that she must control those around her to meet her needs and she does not allow any contrary vision of the real world to enter into her created childhood space. Matthew, though totally in love with her, realizes it is a lost cause. He realizes this when Isabelle and Theo are thrown into an on-going riot and begin acting like characters from a movie, with reckless abandonment as if they were immortal. He merges into the riot and disappears from their lives.

I loved the title, The Dreamers, for this exactly captures Theo and Isabelle's world. At least Matthew finally awoke. This is an underestimated film, it is very well done.
All dreamers must eventually wake up
 
Reviewer: cs211, United States
There are two types of dreamers in "The Dreamers": the three main characters, who create their own interior world and prefer to view the outside world by watching classic 1930s cinema; and the socialist street revolutionaries of riot-torn 1968 Paris, who attempt to overthrow the political and economic power structure. "The Dreamers" focuses more on the former than the latter, and Bernardo Bertolucci is careful to leave his film open to interpretation, but ultimately the dream world of the three main characters is shattered by the realities of life. The film ends before resolving the outcome of the second set of dreamers, but we all know our history. Some may think it a shame that the dreamers fail, but others like myself will view it as something that has to happen, if the dream is unrealistic and unsustainable.

The relationship between the three main characters is unlike anything that I've ever seen portrayed on film. The twins, Isabelle and Theo, are almost as close to each other in young adulthood as they were during the nine months they spent together in their mother's womb. Matthew, a U.S. student studying abroad in Paris, inserts himself into the middle, and when he receives early indications that portend the depth of the relationship between the twins, he does not run away. To me, this required too much suspension of disbelief, but I'm certainly aware that others have different proclivities. If Bertolucci's intent was to show a high degree of separation between his three dreamers and the rest of society, he certainly succeeded.

The three dreamers have some, but ultimately too little, awareness of their separation from reality and the unsustainable nature of the world they create. While sympathizing with the revolutionaries in the street, they actually are the ultimate materialistic consumers: they produce nothing that they consume (neither food nor art), and when the money their parents provide runs out, and they've drained most of the wine cellar, the harsh realities of life set in. Rooting through trash heaps isn't the answer, and the choices that they leave themselves in the end (self-annihilation or nihilism), I believe, show just how flawed their ideal world is. My interpretation is that this lesson also applies to the other set of dreamers, the street revolutionaries, but those who even today sympathize with the views of those revolutionaries will reject this interpretation.

"The Dreamers" is very voyeuristic, and Bertolucci puts his three leads through some incredibly intimate moments. All three leads are quite good, with Eva Green in particular deserving special notice for a completely uninhibited performance (at least the two male leads had each other's example to follow). It's hard to come up with an accurate overall rating for this film, because I think there will be a widespread variance in how different people react to both the storyline and the images. Read the reviews carefully, and if it sounds like something that interests and won't shock you, then give it a try. My middle-of-the-road rating is mainly due to my not being terribly interested in the type of relationship formed by the three main characters.

House of 'Yes' in the War Zone or The First Tango in Paris
 
Reviewer: Galina, Virginia, USA

When Bernardo Bertolucci makes a new film, I want to see it. I know it will be visually beautiful, deep and meaningful. Even when he is not completely successful - his films are difficult to forget. It applies to "The Dreamers" (2003)

In this film, Bertolucci returns to Paris of 1968. His First Tango is as shocking as Last one - it received NC-17 rating for very open scenes of nudity, masturbation, sex, and the hints to incest. But it is not just about sex - it is about film itself. It was the time when Pauline Kael said, "Bertolucci and Brando have altered the face of an art form". It was the time when a crowd in Chicago would line up under umbrellas on the sidewalk, waiting in the rain to get into the next screening of Godard's "Weekend." It was the time when movie makers became the Artists. It was the time when closing down of the famous Cinematheque Francais in Paris by the government started the student culture riots which became the part of youthful rebellion all over the Western World.

Young American, Mathew, a devoted movie buff (Michael Pitt who by the opinion of several reviewers looks like cross between Leo DiCaprio and Macaulay Culkin. I found him looking more like young Roger Ebert would've. ) becomes friends with two French students and fellow movie lovers, twins Isabella (Eva Green, in a star making debut) and Theo (Louis Garrel) and accepts their invitation to stay with them at their apartment while their intellectual parents are away for vacation.

All three are big fans of movies - they not only talk about movies, they live their favorite scenes. "The Dreamers" is Bertolucci's love letter to cinema, and his irony toward people taking it so seriously that the real world is ignored.

When Matthew moves in with the twins, the result closely resembles "Last Tango in Paris". Much of the film's second half occurs in that apartment, as insular as Marlon Brando and Maria Schneider's more than thirty years ago. Flirting becomes passion becomes dark and dangerous games to see how far someone will go. The difference is that the kids of "The Dreamers" are not as complicated and interesting as Paul or Jeanne (especially Paul, one of the greatest performances by genius Brando).

With this wistful ode to sex, cinema, and the heated atmosphere of the '60s, Bertolucci has proved that he is still on the top of his game. I will be happily waiting for his next film.



another dreamy movie from Bertolucci
 
Reviewer: agent_odd, Okemos, MI
This is, simply put, a wonderful film. It's funny, nostalgic, and beautifully photographed. The three leads fill their roles nicely and add a young exuberant sexiness to the story. Film fans are sure to have fun picking out all of the nods to other famous and more obscure movies that Bertolucci has sprinkled throughout his film. History buffs will enjoy the impeccable feel for time and place that was Paris, France in the 1960's. Bertolucci necessarily assumes that the viewer is atleast moderately acquainted with the historic revolutionary events that surround and threaten to swallow up the main characters as they become consumed with their own increasingly isolated activities. If you're not one of those people, there is a thorough survey of this history in a comprehensive documentary contained on the DVD. As with some of Bertolucci's other patently adult films, this one contains an ample amount of full frontal nudity, but it's never shown on screen simply to be exploitative or controversial. It just is what it is. The nudity and sex are refreshingly honest and add a truly elevated sense of abandon that inhabits each of these characters as they become increasingly consumed with their own paranoia and desires. I'll offer no spoilers here except to say that a brick thrown through a window is the beginning and the end. You'll understand what I mean after seeing this film. One final note: You may find one character's bathroom behavior particularly odd and inexplicable. Let's just say, I'll never again think of a bathroom sink in quite the same way. Enjoy!
Dreaming about Dreamers
 
Reviewer: FindingPaul, Chicago, IL
I saw this film in the theatres about 5 months ago. The film was beautifully shot; with each frame rich with colors and depth. I remember the transitions were smooth and although the dialogue a bit cheezy but believable. I was seduced into this sensual world where there was no boundries of morality. Youth was in full bloom and the calories of virtues were being burned brightly. However, this fantasy existed within the confides of the apartment, protected from the the harsh reality of political instability and social normals. Although there are some people who claim that this film is only about sexuality and perverted incest, I think they missed the point of the film. Like when we watch films, we enter a world of fantasy, an escape from our pedestrian lives. When I saw this film, I forgot myself and became absorbed into this wonderful film. I adore this Bertolucci work.
Hmm...more like 4 1/2 stars
 
Reviewer: wannabemoviecritic, California
It seems most --critics and audiences alike-- shrugged off Bertolucci's '04 effort, and for what reasons I'm not quite sure. Watching it, I was fond of its classical aura; it felt like an homage and also something wholly original. Only enhancing this quality are the interjections of classic cinema that are not simply tossed in but integrated seamlessly, uniquely, and often beautifully. Acting-wise, the film is okay, with Eva Green giving probably the best performance of the three. The sexual politics are portrayed effectively, though, by all involved. All in all it is a work I admire. I just cannot get the production design out of my head; the apartment is everything you'd imagine when thinking of an artsy, cinema-obsessed trio making love in seclusion. It is highly recommended to those who live, breathe and walk cinema (much like Matthew, Theo, and Isabelle), but to those who are at all squeamish to sex, I'd refrain. It's graphic in all senses of the word, but regardless it is fine film making, recalling an era I wish existed still.
Not pornographic, not a classic, but worth seeing
 
Reviewer: Aaron Tire,
I was hoping this film would be pornographic. Unfortunately I found it to be a well-acted drama with beautiful cinematography and very expressive performances from its principal cast. In fact I got tired of all the nudity because I preferred the idea of the three young cinemaphiles playacting and reliving scenes from their favorite films. There are references to Godard, Truffaut, Jean Vigo, Chaplin, Keaton, Nicholas Ray, and others. The film introduces us to three interesting, rebellious young people in France in 1968. One is an American, and the other are a French brother and sister. All three 'come together' with an interest in film, particularly the French new wave. Ultimately, I thought too much of the rebellion of the characters was confined indoors and more scenes of them protesting and performing in society were needed. Also, I never quite understood Theo's character and more scenes developing his relationship with Matthew would have improved the film. I have to admit I was hoping for more perverse and daring sex scenes, like the scenes in Last Tango In Paris. However, the scenes of nudity are beautiful, often poetic, and absolutely not pornographic. I actually think dirty, ugly sex scenes may have served the story better. But anyway, the reason to see this is for its interesting if underdeveloped plot and for the surprisingly good acting, especially from Michael Pitt and Eva Green. At the very least, The Dreamers might make you want to see Godard's Band of Outsiders or Bertolucci's own Last Tango In Paris.
Beautiful In Every Way.
 
Reviewer: H. Mendoza, Chicago, IL United States
What a wonderfully seductive film this was. I can relate to this film by relating to Matthew who at that same age was living in Paris and spending time discovering himself.

This film is not only seductive in a sexual sense although it has plenty of that to go around. The walk up along the Seine after encountering the police, the dinner scene with their parents, the vast apartment that looked like it belonged in the Louvre I could go on and on.

If you were drawn to the movie by its NC-17 rating and for nothing else you will not be dissapointed, there is plenty of sexual material, but oddly enough there is much much more to this film than sex. I said odly because it was advertised as a sexual film but unlike other teen self discovery movies like "Y Tu Mama Tambien" the sex here seems to belong instead of feeling awkward to see.

I espcially love the addition of classic french film scenes, in particular the scene where Anna and her two friends from Bande Apart run through the Louvre and the trio from the Dreamers reenact and try to beat their time of running accross the entire louvre.

Such a great and rare film. I thank Mr. Bertolucci for not compromosing his view for this movie for an R rating which may have given the film a much larger audience.
Visually alluring but unoriginal
 
Reviewer: E. Karasik, Washington, DC United States
This film is certainly easy on the eye -- all of the principals are quite beautiful and it's hard to get bored watching gorgeous Eva Green and Louis Garrel cavort half naked for a couple hours. But take that away and all you really have is a pretty stereotypical film about a couple of incestuous French siblings who, in true French tradition, spend a lot of energy devising ways to tantalize and shock their naive American friend. Add to that the fact that the young woman is a pretty sick puppy, and you get a very derivative "homage" to "Jules and Jim" (the French classic about a beautiful and emotionally complex woman whose indecision between two men ultimately destroys all three). The political context is pretty much window dressing, and the film doesn't delve too deeply into the moral and intellectual underpinnings which finally divide the trio. Of more interest is the sub-theme of film-within-film; the trio is obsessed with classic films and their actions are informed by various films, segments of which are shown. This is an interesting device as far as it goes, but in the end Bertolucci drops the ball as to its significance. And to me the failure to include any reference to "Jules and Jim" was dishonest. This is sadly not the Bertolucci of "The Conformist" -- one of my all-time favorites -- but even a mediocre Bertolucci film is of some interest.
I'd give it 4 1/2--but there ain't none.
 
Reviewer: Julie M. Vognar, Berkeley, California United States
A near-great movie for 6.50? Who would pass that up?

I loved all the sex scenes (but only as a voyeur), and no, it is not a "virtually" incestuous relationship--it is an incestuous relationship.
I think my favorite scene is when the twins' parents arrive unexpectedly, and all three young people are sleeping in a happy naked pile in the tent they've set up in the livingroom (probably because their sheets are to dirty to use--in addition to the fact that sleeping in tents is fun). The parents look with horror at the way their house has been trashed, discover that their childrens' morals are ditto, and then one of them writes a check for them, and puts it under a candle on the table (which is then blown out). The wife starts pulling on her husband's sleeve, and when he looks indignantly at her, she says "Did you want to stay for dinner?"

But: what I liked best about this movie is that the American is right about everything! Jimmy Hendrix is better than Eric Clapton, Chaplain is better than Keaton, Mao is not a very creative or humane way to go, all wars are for shit, and breaking and burning other people's property in the streets of Paris isn't going to make anyone agree with you....and incest, although it may be fun, will eventually "make you forget your friends, homework, to fall in love and to brush your teeth." (quote from me in..a story I, um, can't publish). Anyway, usually, the Americans are WRONG about everything. How refreshing!

As always, Bertolucci is very beautiful.
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